Parenting can make memories and feelings of one's own childhood release. Past relationships shape present relationships. At times when we cannot find connection with the partner, we may fall back into patterns we learned to deal with such a situation as a child. Memories that you thought you had come to terms with. Perhaps they are problems you yourself have run into more often?
When you have children of your own, you may be troubled by unresolved issues from the past.
The psychiatrist and philosopher Viktor Frankl described it poetically, saying that life questions us every moment of every day. And it is up to us to answer. If we don't, life keeps pressing on. And so problems arise that we keep running into. Especially in relationships, these problems can reveal themselves, because our partner can be like a mirror to ourselves. In an intimate relationship, dormant things surface. Unresolved issues from your childhood or other difficult circumstances. Certainly this can happen after the birth of your first child. For example: intense feelings of guilt and of fear of not being able to handle the responsibility for the child. To some extent, these feelings are normal and common.
The online Parents Inc. course is for parents in the tropical years. Parents Inc. allows parents to assist each other during the wonderful but sometimes turbulent and difficult time.